Tuesday
The Right Stuff
Not too long from now, my wife and I will be enjoying the role of new parents. I have tried to keep the news off of the blog, but I cannot hold it in any longer. With this new responsibility in life coming quickly, I have started to take the time and ponder about what type of father I want to be. I was fortunate enough to have two loving parents and grandparents into my early twenties and want to provide the same type of open atmosphere I was able to enjoy. I am also fortunate that my peers are strong family men and women and I have been able to learn from them. Here is a quick list of the things I believe are important for a father to teach his children:
1) Place God first in their lives.
2) Setting boundaries so a child knows that being a parent comes first and that sometimes, I will not be their friend.
3) Be mindful of my opinions; as I do not want to unknowingly push my individual beliefs upon my children without opening them to others. (Political, social, and personal beliefs).
4) Provide unconditional love and nuturing of a child.
5) Help them experience different cultures in life and be a guide to help my children understand how people are different.
6) Let them become their own person, but instill into them the morals my wife and I hold.
~Milt~
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Milt. Congratulations, your life will never be the same, of this I am sure. My life changed the minute i heard my daughter's heatbeat for the first time. It is a journey that is as priceless as it is subliminally maddening in some ways. And I say "maddening" in a very good way, I cant explain it any other way. Whether from natural birth or through the process of adoption, the rearing of a child is the single, greatest experience any person can have. God bless you and your wife (and your new child? children?).
Parenting advice is always free at Truthpain :)
Parenting advice is always free at Truthpain :)
Dardin,
Thanks for the words of encouragement. Yes, we are having twins!! I am anxiously awaiting the day of their birth. Should be in mid September.
~Milt~
Thanks for the words of encouragement. Yes, we are having twins!! I am anxiously awaiting the day of their birth. Should be in mid September.
~Milt~
Warning Milt: Parenting can have a devastating effect on your blog postings... believe me, I know!
Twins?... double the fun! Congrats again to you and Mrs. Milt.
Twins?... double the fun! Congrats again to you and Mrs. Milt.
... see what happens when you add me to your blog Milt?.... I just create angst amongst the hoi polloi :)
How are you? Hope you and your wife are happilly awaiting the double joy :)
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How are you? Hope you and your wife are happilly awaiting the double joy :)
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